Yes, I know, I have that Big diffect: the wish to give the “right” advices, thinking to help the other people to try to solve their problems, maybe, in the same way I tried to solve mine, more or less.
But We are All different and I realized that it is better if We find the way to solve Our problems by Ourselves by Our direct experience, with a little Help of Friend, sometimes.
I am working on this diffect but I have not so much patience right now, I would like to give some advices bound it with this B-Project and where in some cases I get the inspiration by.
Reading too many books can be not that useful in somehow, but maybe it is just my personal interpretation and dipends how You use that informations. It is enough to Look how much mess humans have done and actually they are doing behind the “mask” of religiuos books. This is just a silly free provocation, maybe.
I am lucky cause after the accident my memory is get quite bad (at leopard spot), so to learn something I need to study a lot, sometimes, but I find out that a famous writer has got the same “problem”: Daniel Pennac. So I have 3 reasons to think this is a kind of “privilege” to be like that, the first one is that I am not too attached to the past, second as Pennac explained, He enjoy things much more cause it is like the first time every time; but the the most important one is….Emmh….????
Sorry, I forgot! 🙁
I guess it will be much better to avoid anything that could condition Your mind that is like a “esponja” especially when You are Young; keep Your mind free or as much Free as possible and follow Your instict and what really please Your senses.
This is more or less what I learn from different Masters, one of these is quite important to me…a really “mind-anarchist” and coincidentally He wrote a lot of books (so Daniel Odier’s books are higly recommended). About this B-Project to know something about some topics is quite WELCOME, cause I am not a good teacher:
And if You have time and the wish I will suggest some books of H.D.Thoreau at least Walden and some Spinoza stuff if You like a bit of phylosophy…
….and of course Konrad Lorenz, the favorite writer of Bablo:
“Humans” of Yann Arthus-Bertrand 2015 and ALL the doc of this amazing french photographer, and if You already did…DO IT AGAIN!
…and if You are not too sensitive:
“The Road” 2009 of John Hillcoat, based on the book of Cormac McCarthy, do not read the book first. 🙁
This movie can give a kind of idea of what the future could be soon or later if Humans are not changing soon their behaviour.
As soon I will be able and I will find the time I will up loading some funny movies on Youtube, of what’s going on in my place, where I am living. Some are really funny but the most funny ones I have it in my mind. Cause picture are OK but movies sometimes not enough….a bit static.
Music to listen: the best one to relax Your body, cause Total relaxing is a Joyfulness of Your mind.
If You relax listening Nirvana listen Nirvana, I prefer tibetan bells to relax or sometimes classic music like…Bob Marley. 😀
I AM OPEN TO ANY ADVICES TOO, JUST PLEASE DO NOT TELL ME TO READ OTHER BOOKS CAUSE MY ROOM IS FULL OF THEM AND I HAVE TO READ FIRST THOSE ONES…FOR MOVIES SAME SITUATION.
EVEN IF I HAVE NOT THE NEED TO WORK I HAVE NOT FREE TIME EVEN TO GO OUT…NO ACTUALLY I AM GOING OUT WITH MY “FRIEND” EVERY NIGHT TO RUN, BRAM LOVES TO RUN WHEN IT IS NOT TOO HOT. I WAS TALKING ABOUT HUMAN SOCIAL LIFE, I AM NOT DOING IT ANYMORE…I LIKE IF FRIENDS ARE COMING TO VISIT ME, BUT THAT’S IT.
I AM NOT SAD FOR THAT, MAYBE CAUSE I SPEND THE MAJORITY OF MY LIFE TRAVELLING TO VISIT MY FRIENDS AROUND THE WORLD, FROM MEXICO TO NEW ZELAND, IT WAS ALWAYS A GOOD EXCUSE, SO NOW IT IS THE TIME FOR THEM TO VISIT ME, IF THEY WISH.
LAST TIME THAT A FRIEND FROM BELGIUM CAME HERE TO VISIT ME, HE GAVE ME A BEAUTIFUL PRESENT. I REALLY APPRECIATE, EVEN IF USUALLY I DO NOT LIKE PRESENTS, BUT THIS ONE WAS REALLY TASTY AND USEFUL PRESENT:
SO IF YOU ARE COMING TO VISIT ME, YOU KNOW WHICH KIND OF PRESENTS I LIKE…SEEDS OF STRANGE NICE INTERESTING PLANTS ARE ALSO WELCOME.:-)
Special Advice to JILL….remember when You do THAT, relax Your tongue first….and focus on the belly movement of the breathe….and just Presence to Your senses….and ENJOY.